Actually, if I may quote my grandsons, I had a good time. God knew what He was doing when he turned a woman's biological clock off or at least on standby at an early age. I just couldn't move fast enough to really catch them when they did something I had just said no to. I tried to train them to give me a heads up if they planned to disobey but that was fruitless. I finally found when I gave them permission to do something only if they were willing to take the consequences did they start to make good choices. Joshua and I had to come to an agreement. He was not cooperating and he looked at me quite calmly and stated "you not in charge" quite confident that he had the last word. This was a pivotal point in our week ahead so I firmly pulled him from the tub sorta like giving birth and slapped his backside to see if he was breathing. At which he looked at me and stated "me and Namuel are big and we in charge" and promptly sat on the floor ala nude with a defiant look and we were headed for the battlefield. Now 59 with bad back and knees I had to choose the battle I needed to win. So I left him there on the cold tile and Sam and I went to watch a movie on the TV with the instruction to Joshua to get clothes on and join us if not we would see him in a couple of hours. I looked up later and he is carrying mis matched pajama's.
I remember a little girl one time saying to me when she was in trouble and I started to count 1, you need to stop, 2 get out of there, I am almost to three, 2, come on get in here, at which she promptly turned with hand on hip and said "i'll wait till you get to 10" Put a pair of pigtails on that little head of Josh and you have Kim's twin. Ha
As the years pass you forget the time spent trying to raise your children. I have even said I don't remember John, Tom, and Kim acting that way. Well, memories fade and when placed in the same environment I recalled those days gone by. Each boy has their own personality and they have needs for attention. Joshua I decided just screams louder and longer, (kim's same determination) ha. Sam is quiet and is a peace maker and gives in and up rather than fight. He has a low frustration rate. Sam is a deep thinker after this episode with Josh he said to me "MOP, when someone is yelling and getting in trouble it makes me feel like crying" at which he put his head down and cried. He seem to struggle the most with his parents gone. Although he didn't talk about their absence, he was definitely having moments of missing them.
Kim's computer would not work while there, I know what you are thinking, how do you survive without the internet. My answer, ok. We established eating out each night, then putting on our pajama's, reading the book Samuel had for homework, watching something they should not watch and saying our prayers and going to bed. Sam I do believe will be a preacher, he is very serious and told me I needed to go to Sunday School so I can go to Heaven and I needed to join Weight Watchers. So I am taking both suggestions under advisement.
I loved the hugs, and the impromptu shows of laughter and just being silly. I love to hear them talk about each other and how they hugged each other right before they punched the other. The last day I was putting on Joshua's shoes, after giving him the choice to go barefooted, he looked up and said " you know what?" I said "what" "I love you".
The only other problem was my getting sick which did not help me cope at times. Or that something had dumped the the trash all over the yard and the neighbors. My experience at my Work and Witness was rewarding. I enjoyed the hugs and if you are single that is something you can't do alone. So ask me if I would do it again.
Sunday, October 28, 2007
Sunday, October 14, 2007
Africa ..
Well, Kim and Wayne landed in Africa, it is official, she called my dad and we received an email giving us an update. It was dark when they got there so I expect they were unable to see much but hopefully they will be great reporters and bring back pictures and stories. They will be doing some construction work and visiting an orphanage and possibly a short safari. Kim bought baby blankets and wash clothes things listed on the web site. Mom and dad are doing their work and witness mission, they are watching the two amigos. As all kids at 6 and 3 will do they have chased each other and just found unusual ways to entertain themselves. For two little guys who's parents are in a foreign land they are doing ok. I will take my shift on Wednesday and be with them when the travelers come home.
What a once in a lifetime experience. When Kim first asked what I thought about her going to Africa I was thrilled, I suppose I thought this will probably not be so exciting as the reality of the trip gets closer. But if you know Kim she is driven by what she decides to do. She sees no obstacles, no barriers, just inconveniences. She has always been that way. As a kid we would go fishing, well, I went as an observer, she would bait her hook and throw in the line and say, with a smile, "I am going to catch a fish", sure enough out of the water came her fishing line and a good size fish hanging-on flopping in the breeze. When she played ball she would say "I am going to get a hit" sure enough up to bat she would go and there she would go to the next base off the hit. So this trip's evolution was a sure thing once she made the decision.
She has a heart of a missionary. She loves to help and give. Some people misunderstand her efforts as trying to take over or that she doesn't feel they can do a good job. But she just wants to help and as Mark Lowry says " she wants to be a blessing". So as she and Wayne, wake up in the morning and start this two weeks of service we need to pray for the work they are doing and that they both will come back with a new perspective and a better understanding of what it means to be called to service.
What a once in a lifetime experience. When Kim first asked what I thought about her going to Africa I was thrilled, I suppose I thought this will probably not be so exciting as the reality of the trip gets closer. But if you know Kim she is driven by what she decides to do. She sees no obstacles, no barriers, just inconveniences. She has always been that way. As a kid we would go fishing, well, I went as an observer, she would bait her hook and throw in the line and say, with a smile, "I am going to catch a fish", sure enough out of the water came her fishing line and a good size fish hanging-on flopping in the breeze. When she played ball she would say "I am going to get a hit" sure enough up to bat she would go and there she would go to the next base off the hit. So this trip's evolution was a sure thing once she made the decision.
She has a heart of a missionary. She loves to help and give. Some people misunderstand her efforts as trying to take over or that she doesn't feel they can do a good job. But she just wants to help and as Mark Lowry says " she wants to be a blessing". So as she and Wayne, wake up in the morning and start this two weeks of service we need to pray for the work they are doing and that they both will come back with a new perspective and a better understanding of what it means to be called to service.
Monday, October 1, 2007
I'm so glad I'm a part of the family,,,,hummmmmm...
Well, the unofficial official family get together happened over the weekend. I am not sure just how many were there but I can tell you there was plenty of food and many mouths to eat it. There were the seniors of the family from the high eighties to the low 60's. Then the next level was the high 50's down to the low twenties. Our most important group was the high teens to the little unborn child. Many of us told little white lies like "you haven't changed in the last 10 years" but what we meant to say was " wow aging doesn't become you" or "you look so nice in that spandix" but we really meant " what were you thinking when you put that on". Only joking.
We have the neatest mix of relatives. They came from Michigan, Tennessee and all over Ohio. Everyone greeted each other with hugs and kisses sometimes several times by those who didn't remember they had hugged you twice before. Some couldn't remember who you were but trusted you were related. M&K made sure we were welcome in their home and made each person feel special. They decorated with fall items and just let people roam all over the place and they do have nice digs to roam in. The little kids played together and the teens talked to each other, I know I was surprised too.
Some couldn't come this year and yet more were here this year than last. This whole get together started with a small group last year talking about getting together and over 40 people showed up at M&K's house. The one nice part of our family is the musical side and even though it was difficult to get people to gather in we still sang a few old hymns and my mom and cousin's daughter played guitars and my cousin played the key board. We even had a harmonica player and hand tamborine. Some may have thought we were Salvation Army, we finally took the bell from Kelly and removed the big bucket. ( ha )
I guess I say all this to also interject these are special times of catching up on what is happening before we go to someones funeral and have to ask "now how are they related?" It is a busy world and as you sat back and looked around at all those who came, you had a sense of wow, this is something to actually ( sam's favorite word) know that this 60 some people are your family. Some of us, who can still recall past events, shared some stories about when we were younger, some of us talked about retirement, like it can't come fast enough. Others talked about their homes, what things have been going on and just laughing with others even when we had no idea what they were laughing about. I think we all agreed that grey hair is probably going to come back as a fashion statement this year and large sized clothes in dark colors do help make you look slimmer. Most of us could not read fine print so no one shared any written material. At the end of the day as everyone hobbled to their cars and strapped the kids and themselves to go home they were glad they made the trip and hope they can remember to come back next year. Those who can't will say " it's time to get ready to go to Marsha's" "who" "Marsha"s" "where" "you know Marsha's house"
"why do you want to go there" " we go there every year" "what" " you remember we go there to see everyone" "why" " never mind, just get in the car" " I don't know why you're so mad" " if you would have said we were going to go to their house I would have gotten ready" .....------ something like that is sure to happen to the best of us.
So to M&K thank you, thank you for all your hard work to let us invade your home and have a GRATE DAY!!!!!! WE LOVE YOU
We have the neatest mix of relatives. They came from Michigan, Tennessee and all over Ohio. Everyone greeted each other with hugs and kisses sometimes several times by those who didn't remember they had hugged you twice before. Some couldn't remember who you were but trusted you were related. M&K made sure we were welcome in their home and made each person feel special. They decorated with fall items and just let people roam all over the place and they do have nice digs to roam in. The little kids played together and the teens talked to each other, I know I was surprised too.
Some couldn't come this year and yet more were here this year than last. This whole get together started with a small group last year talking about getting together and over 40 people showed up at M&K's house. The one nice part of our family is the musical side and even though it was difficult to get people to gather in we still sang a few old hymns and my mom and cousin's daughter played guitars and my cousin played the key board. We even had a harmonica player and hand tamborine. Some may have thought we were Salvation Army, we finally took the bell from Kelly and removed the big bucket. ( ha )
I guess I say all this to also interject these are special times of catching up on what is happening before we go to someones funeral and have to ask "now how are they related?" It is a busy world and as you sat back and looked around at all those who came, you had a sense of wow, this is something to actually ( sam's favorite word) know that this 60 some people are your family. Some of us, who can still recall past events, shared some stories about when we were younger, some of us talked about retirement, like it can't come fast enough. Others talked about their homes, what things have been going on and just laughing with others even when we had no idea what they were laughing about. I think we all agreed that grey hair is probably going to come back as a fashion statement this year and large sized clothes in dark colors do help make you look slimmer. Most of us could not read fine print so no one shared any written material. At the end of the day as everyone hobbled to their cars and strapped the kids and themselves to go home they were glad they made the trip and hope they can remember to come back next year. Those who can't will say " it's time to get ready to go to Marsha's" "who" "Marsha"s" "where" "you know Marsha's house"
"why do you want to go there" " we go there every year" "what" " you remember we go there to see everyone" "why" " never mind, just get in the car" " I don't know why you're so mad" " if you would have said we were going to go to their house I would have gotten ready" .....------ something like that is sure to happen to the best of us.
So to M&K thank you, thank you for all your hard work to let us invade your home and have a GRATE DAY!!!!!! WE LOVE YOU
Wednesday, September 19, 2007
Hope for tomorrow...
Lots of things are happening and changing. The other night Sam was in my back seat and we were talking about some things that were happening. He was so serious, using a very big and quiet voice. He had some things to share and as we talked I told him probably the only real thing we could do to help would be to pray. The car was quiet and my thoughts are racing wondering what things I need to get at the store when I hear this soft voice saying " dear Jesus, help ----- to be better and don't let ---- happen, Amen" I left the blanks, it isn't real important to share the actual prayer, but the feeling that went into that small request. I didn't say anything for a while and the car remained quiet. He was in deep thought. A child shall lead them....
Joshua later followed up with showing me his elbow. He said "mop it almost gone, cause Jesus take care of the boo, boo. " " Jesus lives in Heaben...." A child shall lead them......
Lately there has been so many articles and stories of children facing horrific tragedies and how families are coping. It is heart wrenching and so unbelievably unfair sometimes. But in the end it seems they are wiser and smarter than all of us because they trust and rarely doubt. Once they are moving forward they just streak off leaving us in the dust. A child shall lead them....
I have read the Hummel's blog everyday and truly they have been a real blessing with their honesty and their questions and their strong faith. With everything they write and share you sense that if that were you in their shoes, walking the unknown would you have that same strength. But in the end a Child will lead them....
Life lesson's are not always easy. We tend to think we are exempt from those experiences that we hear about and sympathize with, so when it comes we are blindsided by the impact and struggle to make sense out of the experience. So I have found myself this week saying very quietly in my car " dear Jesus" cause you see a child has made a path for me to follow.......
Joshua later followed up with showing me his elbow. He said "mop it almost gone, cause Jesus take care of the boo, boo. " " Jesus lives in Heaben...." A child shall lead them......
Lately there has been so many articles and stories of children facing horrific tragedies and how families are coping. It is heart wrenching and so unbelievably unfair sometimes. But in the end it seems they are wiser and smarter than all of us because they trust and rarely doubt. Once they are moving forward they just streak off leaving us in the dust. A child shall lead them....
I have read the Hummel's blog everyday and truly they have been a real blessing with their honesty and their questions and their strong faith. With everything they write and share you sense that if that were you in their shoes, walking the unknown would you have that same strength. But in the end a Child will lead them....
Life lesson's are not always easy. We tend to think we are exempt from those experiences that we hear about and sympathize with, so when it comes we are blindsided by the impact and struggle to make sense out of the experience. So I have found myself this week saying very quietly in my car " dear Jesus" cause you see a child has made a path for me to follow.......
Thursday, September 6, 2007
The Big D and the Huffledinks
I finally made the decision to fly to Dallas and visit the Huffledink family and see their brand new home and their newest Huffledink girl, Lauren and the two minature Huffledinks. They sure are cute. My flight was uneventful except for getting to the American Airline gate.
For those of you that see me struggle to my feet and then stop every 2o feet or less to rest, the idea of making my way to the terminal located at the end of the airport was not my idea of a wonderful exercise adventure. So where it asks if you need special accommodations they list wheelchairs, so I checked yes. What I didn't know is that American flags your boarding pass and immediately as the man was handing me the pass a little guy comes out asking if I need a wheelchair. I thought he was looking at someone else so I hesitated, then he asked again and I said I had requested one to get me to the gate. He immediately had me sit down then promptly yelled I need a WIDE one....... Well, so much for fading into the crowd.
My ride was ok although at times it felt like I was in a bad movie and the end would come as we landed the plane. This time the clouds were so thick that you thought you were floating on a huge layer of cotton... (candy) ha.... It was absolutely breathtaking.
When I got to Dallas since my seat was in row 30F I was one of the last to leave the plane and you guessed it there was an even shorter man waiting with a WIDE wheelchair (they must have called the request ahead) ready to take me to the baggage claim area. So we had a discussion, since his english skills were limited he pointed and I was trying to tell him I did not think the ratio of my weight and his size and gravity would work for him to push me up hill. He insisted and I being bigger kept walking as he followed me with the WIDE chair up the ramp. Just as we got close to the opening I finally sat down and then he strapped me in and off we went a whopping 10 feet to the baggage area where big daddy Huffledink met me.
As always it was good to see him and I will say he has shed a few pounds. Off we went to the Hamptons, just kidding we headed to his housing development. Big brick homes lined down the street. It was defintely a far cry from our trailer in Clyde. 5 bedroom 31/2 bath mini castle. The one really neat part of living where they live there is a mini theme water park within a few minutes from home.( there I go exaggerating again) only if you count the 5 pools and the spray park.
Kaitlyn is so pretty and getting older and losing teeth. She is always very lady like and sits with her leg crossed and swings the crossed leg with purpose. She growing up fast. Tyler was so cute, he didn't know whether to talk to me or not. He just looked at me and smiled a lot. Later he talked and talked. The kids have the entire upper floor, what I would have given to have had that kind of space when the john, tom and kim were small. Tyler choose wisely his room he is over the bridge and has his own private unit bath and all.
One neat thing that happened was Kim decided to drive down with her boys. For me it was so nice to see all the grandchildren together. Although they do not see each other often they sure did play together. As I sat an looked around I thought wow I have some cool kids. Kristena's grandparents came over for supper and we, daddy huffedink and sister hooter(kim) kept everyone entertained. The lasagna and the dessert was wonderful. Kristena has decorated everything very nicely and they seem to be making a wonderful home.
One really cute thing that happened was Kims kids call me MOP and Johns call me Grandma Jones. Joshua heard Tyler or Kaitlyn call me Grandma, he said you not Grandma you MOP.
Life is short I can verify that, one day you are 20 then suddenly you go to sleep and you are 59 how did that happen. One day your kids are running around fighting and laughing and suddenly they are parents of minatures of themselves. Lately I have been calling Sam (john) getting older is not good. Little Lauren is adorable and so petite, she has the bluest eyes they seem to be looking right through you. Unfortunately she seems quite attached to the Huffledinks and did not want them out of her sight.
Although my time was too short I am awfully glad I could go. Just before I left Tyler quietly came over to me and said real softly "grandma, you need to take off your shoes, my mom don't want you to wear them on the carpet". So I promise to remove my shoes the next time I come.
Families are important.... Mine are special
For those of you that see me struggle to my feet and then stop every 2o feet or less to rest, the idea of making my way to the terminal located at the end of the airport was not my idea of a wonderful exercise adventure. So where it asks if you need special accommodations they list wheelchairs, so I checked yes. What I didn't know is that American flags your boarding pass and immediately as the man was handing me the pass a little guy comes out asking if I need a wheelchair. I thought he was looking at someone else so I hesitated, then he asked again and I said I had requested one to get me to the gate. He immediately had me sit down then promptly yelled I need a WIDE one....... Well, so much for fading into the crowd.
My ride was ok although at times it felt like I was in a bad movie and the end would come as we landed the plane. This time the clouds were so thick that you thought you were floating on a huge layer of cotton... (candy) ha.... It was absolutely breathtaking.
When I got to Dallas since my seat was in row 30F I was one of the last to leave the plane and you guessed it there was an even shorter man waiting with a WIDE wheelchair (they must have called the request ahead) ready to take me to the baggage claim area. So we had a discussion, since his english skills were limited he pointed and I was trying to tell him I did not think the ratio of my weight and his size and gravity would work for him to push me up hill. He insisted and I being bigger kept walking as he followed me with the WIDE chair up the ramp. Just as we got close to the opening I finally sat down and then he strapped me in and off we went a whopping 10 feet to the baggage area where big daddy Huffledink met me.
As always it was good to see him and I will say he has shed a few pounds. Off we went to the Hamptons, just kidding we headed to his housing development. Big brick homes lined down the street. It was defintely a far cry from our trailer in Clyde. 5 bedroom 31/2 bath mini castle. The one really neat part of living where they live there is a mini theme water park within a few minutes from home.( there I go exaggerating again) only if you count the 5 pools and the spray park.
Kaitlyn is so pretty and getting older and losing teeth. She is always very lady like and sits with her leg crossed and swings the crossed leg with purpose. She growing up fast. Tyler was so cute, he didn't know whether to talk to me or not. He just looked at me and smiled a lot. Later he talked and talked. The kids have the entire upper floor, what I would have given to have had that kind of space when the john, tom and kim were small. Tyler choose wisely his room he is over the bridge and has his own private unit bath and all.
One neat thing that happened was Kim decided to drive down with her boys. For me it was so nice to see all the grandchildren together. Although they do not see each other often they sure did play together. As I sat an looked around I thought wow I have some cool kids. Kristena's grandparents came over for supper and we, daddy huffedink and sister hooter(kim) kept everyone entertained. The lasagna and the dessert was wonderful. Kristena has decorated everything very nicely and they seem to be making a wonderful home.
One really cute thing that happened was Kims kids call me MOP and Johns call me Grandma Jones. Joshua heard Tyler or Kaitlyn call me Grandma, he said you not Grandma you MOP.
Life is short I can verify that, one day you are 20 then suddenly you go to sleep and you are 59 how did that happen. One day your kids are running around fighting and laughing and suddenly they are parents of minatures of themselves. Lately I have been calling Sam (john) getting older is not good. Little Lauren is adorable and so petite, she has the bluest eyes they seem to be looking right through you. Unfortunately she seems quite attached to the Huffledinks and did not want them out of her sight.
Although my time was too short I am awfully glad I could go. Just before I left Tyler quietly came over to me and said real softly "grandma, you need to take off your shoes, my mom don't want you to wear them on the carpet". So I promise to remove my shoes the next time I come.
Families are important.... Mine are special
Tuesday, August 14, 2007
Answer to Prayer
How Great Thou Art, How Great Thou Art, that was the opening song on the new Gaither video, it is also the answer to prayer. The MRI that Kim had came back ok, no aneurysm or any indication of the AVM on this test, so thank you for all the prayers. She has one more test tomorrow so continue to pray that this test will also come back ok. As Sam says" Mop, Jesus healed the boo, boo, He is doing it right now, see?"
Over the weekend we went to our family reunion, actually two reunions. It was hot as always, it must be some unwritten rule that reunions must be over 90 degrees and if possible a couple of real downpours. I would enjoy them so much more if there could be air conditioning with bathrooms across the room. Instead you have to hope you bladder will last to go up the hill and over the valley as you make your way to the two holes and a sears catalog.
This year we all, well, the north won the battle with the south and moved the reunion to Hocking Hills Family Center. It was about even in miles for all to travel. You know when you go on line and look at the pictures and all the descriptions of the facilities you think wow that will be neat. They offered go carts, putt, putt golf and sand volleyball. What they didn't tell you the pictures had been enhanced or taken right after they developed the property, ohhhh maybe 20 years ago. Kim made the arrangements, the first indication there may be a problem was the address on the online materials. After the announcements went out in the mail, Kim finds out that the address she has sent out is the address of the company, the Family Center is down the road, exactly off Co. Rd 10. We actually drove past the sign, I don't know how it was only about 2 feet high off the ground and hand painted pointed up a gravel road. Up being the relative word. It was straight up with pot holes and big chunky gravel or stones, it is up to interpretation. The flags I think were posted on the side to distract the faint of heart as your car spun on the gravel or stone. When we pulled up on level ground and I am proud to say we had no casualties, we see, well, not the advertisement. When Kim asked about the sand volleyball court, they sent a tractor to mow the grass that had grown up through the sand, I guess there was sand, couldn't tell due to the big chunks of grass. The putt putt was well let's say a putt. The go carts worked as did the bathrooms. So buyer beware of false advertisement.
Although it was not the fancy fun center we anticipated we had a good time with about 50 people in attendance. In comparison to the other place the South goes, the bathrooms were closer and there were games to play in the office / game room. And really the place is not the reason we get together it is the time to see who has aged, gotten a little heavier, who has the most children, who lives where, who has had a baby or is going to have one ( ANDREA) and where everyone is living. It is a test for the older of the group to see if they remember who is who.
So although it was hot it was good to see everyone again. I was brave and had the boys ride with me and stay the night in my motel room. Two boys and a overweight, bad back, stiff knees mop trying to keep up with dynamo Joshua was a feat. I decided he has a game plan. He starts in one area, gets me distracted, I start that direction and he does a 360 and off he goes in another direction grabbing something else and as I slowly turn and groan, he is off to his next mission. Then he will stop quickly which then throws me off center and I am teetering as he turns his back and says "I shake my bootie" and giggles. Just as I raise my foot to tap his bootie off he goes to do something else. To say the least by the time I got home I was out in a flash as soon as my bootie hit the couch. Sam on the other hand was the studious person. He would say" ok Mop this is a math question" I have 6 apples and someone takes 2 apples' now what will I do" I wanted to say whew, you only have to eat 4. But instead I would reply " well, how many will you have if you have 6 and someone takes 2" " that is a hard one Sam" he would say" MOP" very sternly" you have to count" holding up his fingers" you have 6 and 2 gone, 1, 2, 3, 4 you have 4" do you get it?" so ask me any questions about apples I know all the combinations it was an hour and half drive. As Josh turned the TV off, he added " that wasn't nice" and moved on.
It was a good weekend and now it would appear a good week. The many songs on this new tape were encouraging music, What a Friend we have in Jesus, Leaning on the Everlasting Arms, What a Friend is He, Jesus Love Me and Great is Thy Faithfulness. All needed when things seem out of control.
Over the weekend we went to our family reunion, actually two reunions. It was hot as always, it must be some unwritten rule that reunions must be over 90 degrees and if possible a couple of real downpours. I would enjoy them so much more if there could be air conditioning with bathrooms across the room. Instead you have to hope you bladder will last to go up the hill and over the valley as you make your way to the two holes and a sears catalog.
This year we all, well, the north won the battle with the south and moved the reunion to Hocking Hills Family Center. It was about even in miles for all to travel. You know when you go on line and look at the pictures and all the descriptions of the facilities you think wow that will be neat. They offered go carts, putt, putt golf and sand volleyball. What they didn't tell you the pictures had been enhanced or taken right after they developed the property, ohhhh maybe 20 years ago. Kim made the arrangements, the first indication there may be a problem was the address on the online materials. After the announcements went out in the mail, Kim finds out that the address she has sent out is the address of the company, the Family Center is down the road, exactly off Co. Rd 10. We actually drove past the sign, I don't know how it was only about 2 feet high off the ground and hand painted pointed up a gravel road. Up being the relative word. It was straight up with pot holes and big chunky gravel or stones, it is up to interpretation. The flags I think were posted on the side to distract the faint of heart as your car spun on the gravel or stone. When we pulled up on level ground and I am proud to say we had no casualties, we see, well, not the advertisement. When Kim asked about the sand volleyball court, they sent a tractor to mow the grass that had grown up through the sand, I guess there was sand, couldn't tell due to the big chunks of grass. The putt putt was well let's say a putt. The go carts worked as did the bathrooms. So buyer beware of false advertisement.
Although it was not the fancy fun center we anticipated we had a good time with about 50 people in attendance. In comparison to the other place the South goes, the bathrooms were closer and there were games to play in the office / game room. And really the place is not the reason we get together it is the time to see who has aged, gotten a little heavier, who has the most children, who lives where, who has had a baby or is going to have one ( ANDREA) and where everyone is living. It is a test for the older of the group to see if they remember who is who.
So although it was hot it was good to see everyone again. I was brave and had the boys ride with me and stay the night in my motel room. Two boys and a overweight, bad back, stiff knees mop trying to keep up with dynamo Joshua was a feat. I decided he has a game plan. He starts in one area, gets me distracted, I start that direction and he does a 360 and off he goes in another direction grabbing something else and as I slowly turn and groan, he is off to his next mission. Then he will stop quickly which then throws me off center and I am teetering as he turns his back and says "I shake my bootie" and giggles. Just as I raise my foot to tap his bootie off he goes to do something else. To say the least by the time I got home I was out in a flash as soon as my bootie hit the couch. Sam on the other hand was the studious person. He would say" ok Mop this is a math question" I have 6 apples and someone takes 2 apples' now what will I do" I wanted to say whew, you only have to eat 4. But instead I would reply " well, how many will you have if you have 6 and someone takes 2" " that is a hard one Sam" he would say" MOP" very sternly" you have to count" holding up his fingers" you have 6 and 2 gone, 1, 2, 3, 4 you have 4" do you get it?" so ask me any questions about apples I know all the combinations it was an hour and half drive. As Josh turned the TV off, he added " that wasn't nice" and moved on.
It was a good weekend and now it would appear a good week. The many songs on this new tape were encouraging music, What a Friend we have in Jesus, Leaning on the Everlasting Arms, What a Friend is He, Jesus Love Me and Great is Thy Faithfulness. All needed when things seem out of control.
Friday, August 10, 2007
What's important?
So each day I learn more about what is important. Sometimes I think having a new car, a big house, lots of money and someone to clean, cook, drive and fix my hair would be the ultimate of what is important. But then something happens that makes you sit back and take a real close look at what you have and you start to take inventory.
On one blog a young lady passed away from an illness, another is in a wheelchair from a diving accident, someone else trying to adopt a baby is now sitting by his bedside as he fights for life, a baby is scheduled for surgery, a young lady was killed while driving home after a big tree limb crushed her side of the car. A bridge collapsed and a young pregnate mother and her 2 year old are missing, a mine collapsed with 4 coal miners. What do you say when so much is going on around you.
Trying to find the important things and keeping our perspective. Kim has been having a whooshing sound in her head. She finally went to see the doctor it seems it can be a serious condition that could require surgery and is frightening to say the least. You see I would trade everything I own and anything I gain to not have that be so. And so we pray and wait for the results of her MRI and then the ultra sound of her arteries in her neck. As I thought of all the things that could be and hoped would not be I could only think of Sam and his faith. He will get a boo boo and may cry but the next time I see him he will point to the area and say "see Mop" Jesus fixed my boo boo" I may not tell this right but Joshua got hurt and Sam quickly said" See Joshua Jesus will fix it" and held his finger up and said "He is doing it now"
Children see the elementary of everything and the simplicity. They don't complicate it with how others might think if we express our faith. They don't try to analyze the situation and try to downplay the need to ask God to heal. They just believe. So I am going to take Sam's lead and just believe and have faith that God being the great physician will analyze the results of the test review the situation and will offer the outcome that is part of His plan.
But if you want to pray, it would definitely be appreciated.
On one blog a young lady passed away from an illness, another is in a wheelchair from a diving accident, someone else trying to adopt a baby is now sitting by his bedside as he fights for life, a baby is scheduled for surgery, a young lady was killed while driving home after a big tree limb crushed her side of the car. A bridge collapsed and a young pregnate mother and her 2 year old are missing, a mine collapsed with 4 coal miners. What do you say when so much is going on around you.
Trying to find the important things and keeping our perspective. Kim has been having a whooshing sound in her head. She finally went to see the doctor it seems it can be a serious condition that could require surgery and is frightening to say the least. You see I would trade everything I own and anything I gain to not have that be so. And so we pray and wait for the results of her MRI and then the ultra sound of her arteries in her neck. As I thought of all the things that could be and hoped would not be I could only think of Sam and his faith. He will get a boo boo and may cry but the next time I see him he will point to the area and say "see Mop" Jesus fixed my boo boo" I may not tell this right but Joshua got hurt and Sam quickly said" See Joshua Jesus will fix it" and held his finger up and said "He is doing it now"
Children see the elementary of everything and the simplicity. They don't complicate it with how others might think if we express our faith. They don't try to analyze the situation and try to downplay the need to ask God to heal. They just believe. So I am going to take Sam's lead and just believe and have faith that God being the great physician will analyze the results of the test review the situation and will offer the outcome that is part of His plan.
But if you want to pray, it would definitely be appreciated.
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